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     Our Baby is sleeping


           



This memorial website was created in the memory of our beloved son, Blaise Henry Madden-Brown who was born sleeping in the UK on September 07, 2006 at 19weeks gestation.
 We will remember him forever. 





Light a candle to let us know you
have been to visit Blaise today
It means alot to us
Thank you x





Eternal rest grant unto him O'Lord and let perpetual light shine upon him may he rest in peace . Amen 












Tiny Angel

Tiny Angel rest your wings
Sit with me a while.
How I long to hold your hand,
And see your tender smile.

Tiny Angel, look at me,
I want this image clear....
That I will forget your precious face
Is my biggest fear.

Tiny Angel can you tell me,
Why you have gone away?
You weren't here for very long...
Why is it you couldn't stay?

Tiny Angel shook his head,
"These things I do not know...
But I do know you loved me,
And that I loved you so." 






2 little hands – that will never grip
2 little legs that no longer kick
A delicate face that will never cry
And tiny hands that can’t wave goodbye
2 precious feet that will never walk
Soft, blue lips that will never talk
But a beautiful soul that has gone up above
And left us with feelings and memories of love








When you lose a parent, you lose your past.
When you lose a spouse, you lose your present...
But when you lose a child, you lose your future. 

A wife who loses her husband is called a widow.
A husband who loses his wife is called a widower.
 A child who loses their parents is called an orphan.
 
There is no word for a parent who loses a child... 

That's how awful the loss is. 



              


DADDY’S POEM FOR BLAISE 


The Month Of May When Mummy Told Me,
That In Her Belly We Had A Baby

Clear On Our Faces Was Happiness And Smiles
People Could See For Miles And Miles

We Never Knew If You Would Be A Baby Girl Or Boy
But We Knew You'd Give Us So Much Love And Joy

But From 11 Weeks Mummy Didn't Feel Right
She Had Pains In Her Stomach From Morning Till Night

7th September Was The Heartbreaking Day
When Everything Around Us Turned Dark And Grey

It Was Time To Leave Us Our Darling Blaise
For God Wanted Another Angel For His Heavenly Place

All Of A Sudden You Were Taken And Gone
What Had Mummy & Daddy Done That Was So Wrong?

We Were Emotional Lost, We Didn't Know What To Do
 But Then We Felt The Love Shining Down From You

Our Hearts Are Broken, They Will Never Mend
But Our Love And Kisses To You We Send

So Sleep Well Our Son On Your Comfy Cloud,
Mummy And Daddy Are So So Proud


All Our Love Always And Forever
Mummy And Daddy
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

This poem was especially Written by Blaise's Daddy Greg, 
Please DO NOT COPY 
or change it in any way for your own use

Thank you




Do you see my Daddy ?

Do u see my daddy?
Do you see him really?
Do u see him dying inside?
For the child he loved so dearly?
Or do you see him being strong?
An arm around my mummy,
do you see him cry at night?
Or is he trying to be funny?
He has to be the man,
hold tight onto the tears,
he cant show you or anybody,
his deepest darkest fears.
He has to put on the brave face?
So everything seems fine!
But trust me deep inside him,
he's crying all the time.
He wanted to teach me football,
play fight on the floor,
he wanted to carry me in his arms,
to show off and adore.
Instead he felt so useless,
as he sat by mummies side,
as she pushed me into the world,
and everyone but me cried.
So don't think he's not hurting,
and don't think it is wrong,
to give him a gentle cuddle,
tell him he don't need to be strong.
Let him cry on your shoulder,
because my daddy is hurting too,
everyone cuddles my mummy,
my daddy don't know what to do!!
If i could id kiss him,
and say,'' hey i look like you,''
i love my daddy so dearly,
remember he's a parent too.
His mates think he's still one of the lads,
great,, good fun ,still him,
sending their love to my mummy,
he'll wink at them and grin.
But in his soul he's dying,
a missing piece is gone,
what about my daddy?
He didn't do anything wrong!
Don't treat him like a leper,
or without the softer touch.
Remember to treat them both the same,
for he loved me just as much. 

Author ~ Claire Thorpe



Do you see my Mummy?

If u see my mummy,
please hold her tight for me,
cuz even tho shes smiling,
her pains not easy to see.
Shes hidden it deep inside her,
a smile upon her face,
so u don't feel uncomfortable,
or put in an awkward place.
She will laugh n she will smile,
sound normal on the phone,
but deep inside shes screaming,
''help me i'm sooo alone''
i can hear also her bother,
cuz its screaming from her heart,
she doesn't know y this happened,
why we had to part.
shes all mixed up inside her,
her body is filled with pain,
please someone help my mummy,
before she goes insane.
Just talk about me to her,
don't think that the pain has gone,
that she should be over me,
for her pain will go on and on.
She held me in her body,
then held me in her arm,
she wanted to look after me ,
and keep me away from harm.
But she feels in a way,
that she let me down,
and i cant reassure her,
that i am always around.
I want to hug her tightly,
and take away her pain,
but i cant do that from here,
wait until were together again.
So if you see my mummy,
don't say you've been through worse,
don't say oh she will get over me, 
I am not a lost purse!
I am and always will be,
the baby that she bore,
and even tho youu loved me,
my mummy loved me more.
Don't compare me to a lost dog,
or a granddad or a nan,
she will help u with your worries,
if she feel she can.
Don't expect to much from her,
its her child that she misses
shes like a china doll inside,
could crack up into pieces,
so hold her please so gently,
tell her not to be afraid to cry,
and listen to her go on and on,
why oh why oh why.?
Shes not the person you once knew,
yes shes changed alot,
one day her smile maybe genuine,
one day it maybe not.
So please let me rest peacefully,
i wont until u know,
that my mummy needs your support,
not that silly look of so??
That as i never breathed,
i wasn't really real,
that its harder to have memories,
how do u think that make her feel?
Cuz we have many memories,
you weren't lucky enough to share,
daddy kissed me in my coffin,
mummy places in my teddy bear.
I werent a something that happened!!
Or a thing that was meant to be,
she carried me past the maybe stages,
she then gave birth to me.
So if you see my mummy,
give her a gentle squeeze,
don't tell her what i've told u,
she wont be too pleased.
She likes to think its private,
the pain is not being shown
but it is there believe me,
she is feeling so alone.
Thankyou all for listening,
i'm glad i got to say,
thou u don't know me like mummy,
trust me ,you will one day!


Author ~ Claire Thorpe






           











           
















Our Little Boy

Your little boy cries too much . 
Our little boy makes no sound .
Your little boy sleeps warm in his crib . 
Ours lies cold in the ground .

Your little boy woke up today . 
Our little boy never will .
Your little boy laughs and plays . 
Our little boy lies still .

Your little boy makes you proud .
And just as proud as we are
Cause while your little boy is learning to walk . 
Our little boy can FLY 

























I never knew God chose his Angels
before some of them were born.
Your life was short yet special
I shared it all exclusively
I felt you breathe, I felt you kick.
You were alive inside of me.


Every baby is an Angel
and every angel is divine
God needed one in heaven
He came down and took mine
And although we are not together
we're not really apart
for you'll always occupy a space
deep within my heart.

Time has begun to ease my pain
It's only some days now I cry.
When I wish I could have said "Hello"
and heard you say "Goodbye" 

~Author Unknown~




















Poem From Christie:

Although you are up there with the angels,
 our hearts are still bleeding,
Blaise you have left a hole in our hearts,
 forever we are grieving.
Look down on us little man, as your star shines bright,
We need you to look over us all day and all through the night,
For god felt it was time to take you under his wing and keep you there safe and tight,
For now it is goodbye and see you soon,
All our love from us to you.

God bless you Blaise

Christie
x x x x x x

Thankyou babes xxx








Our Little Star






           



A beautiful little angel showed up to Heaven's gates
confused and unknowing the plan that for them awaits.
 Then another little angel walked up and took their hand
"Please don't be sad you left, you're in the Promised Land." 
"I'm glad to be here but I do not think I was to go,
Perhaps there was a mistake, for my mummy wanted me so.
The little greeting angel gave a sweet smile and said
"My mummy wanted me too, but to Heaven I was led.
 You see, we do not get to choose when on earth it's time to go. He gave life, love and joy and a mother's womb to grow.
The lord still needs new angels to guide down on earth . 
To watch over , comfort them, and help them see their worth."
"Is there still a way that I can sleep in my mummy's bed?" 
The greeting angel grinned and said,
 "that luxury you'll keep. 
I visit my mummy nightly and softly sing her to sleep." 
The little angel replied, " then I think I'll like it here. 
I'll visit my mummy nightly and weaken her pain and fears.
I love her and will keep her safe at night and in between, 
and let her know with a sweet memory that she is still with me.
" The greeting angel gave her new friend
a big hug and said, "Untill our mummy's meet
us here, let's be best angel friends."
"Okay." said the new angel, "that sounds
good to me."
 Then the angels sat and played keeping their mummy's in sight, humming the tunes to the song they would sing to their mummy's tonight. 






















"If Loved could have saved him

 he would have lived forever"


 










If Roses Grow In Heaven

If roses grow in heaven
Lord,please pick a bunch for me
Place them in my sons arms
And tell him they're from me

Tell him that i love him,
And when he turns to smile
Place a kiss upon his cheek
And hold him for a while.

Because remembering him is everything
I do it everyday
For there is an aching in my heart
that will never go away.









Mum, I'm An Angel Now

One Night I cried to Jesus
as I sat beneath the tree,
I looked into the open sky
and hoped, He'd answer me.
"I'm lost dear Lord, I've traveled far,
but I still seem to roam.
Please light the way and lead me, Lord,
I need to get back home".

I told Him of my burdens
and of the sadness in my heart,
That from His gracious love
I'd never felt so apart.
"Why did you take my child Lord?
I cannot understand!
I'm angry Lord, I'm missing him,
I'm drowning in my sorrow.
Please help to heal my yesterday
and face each new tomorrow."

It was then I heard his gentle voice,
and felt his presence near,
How I wanted to hold him
as I cried another tear.
He said, "Mum, I'm an angel now,
my spirit will be free,
I'm an angel now in Heaven,
so please don't cry for me.
I was chosen by our Lord above
and now I'm in his care,
When you need me, look inside your heart,
I promise to be there.

No one can ever take away
our bond with one another.
For I'll always be your precious child,
as you will always be my Mother.
So if you can not find your way,
or the road to home seems far,
Just look up to the Heavens
and I'll be your guiding star."












An Angel's kiss

We go through life so often
Not stopping to enjoy the day,
And we take each one for granted
As we travel on our way.

We never stop to measure
Anything we just might miss,
But if the wind should blow by softly
You'll feel an Angel's Kiss

A kiss that is sent from Heaven
A kiss from up above,
A kiss that is very special
From someone that you love.

For in your pain and sorrow
An Angel's kiss will help you through,
This kiss is very private
For it is meant for only you.

So when your hearts are heavy
and filled with tears and pain,
and no one can console you
Remember once again...

About the ones you grieve for
Because you sadly miss
And the gentle breeze You took for granted
Was just..."An Angel's Kiss"

- Author unknown - 






















It's hard for us to fathom.
No one truly understands
that this child that has been taken,
is now held tenderly in God's hands.
Cared for and nurtured by the Father,
he will grow and mature in His love,
while angels guide and keep him in
his Heavenly home up above.

They will tell him he is special
and that you love him, even more-so today
as they spend countless hours preparing
for your reunion One Grand Day!
They will take him to the edges of Heaven
and let him look often down below
to see the loved ones left down here
that he didn't get time to know.

So as you gaze up into the sky,
know he's now in a Glorious place,
and maybe he's looking back at you ~
searching for a smile upon your face.
For I'm certain that in his little heart
it grieves him to see you cry,
and if he could he would tell you:
"Mummy I'll See you later! ~ Daddy it's not goodbye!" 


























As you hold me close in memory, even though we are apart, my spirit will live on, there within your heart … I am with you always. When you lean on trusted friends and their caring hugs enfold you, within their loving arms, I'll be there to hold you … I am with you always. And beyond the far horizon when we'll finally be together, Where love will be eternal and life will last forever … I am with you always.










TO MUMMY

I have not turned my back on you
So there is no need to cry
I'm watching you from Heaven
Just beyond the morning sky

I've seen you almost fall apart
When you could barely stand
I asked the Lord to comfort you
And watched him take your hand

He told me you are in more pain
Than I could ever be
He wiped his eyes and swallowed hard
Then gave your hand to me

Although you may not feel my touch
Or see me by your side
I've whispered that I love you
While I wiped each tear you cried

So please try not to ache for me
We'll meet again one day
Beyond the dark and stormy sky
A RAINBOW lights the way 











"Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy. "













Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts.
 ~Author Unknown 







Blaise playing in Heavens garden with his friends
























If I could have a lifetime wish
A dream that would come true.
I’d pray to God with all my heart for yesterday and you.
A thousand words can’t bring you back,
I know because I have tried.
And neither will a million tears
I know because I have cried.
You left behind my broken heart
and happy memories too.
I never wanted memories,
I only wanted you. 









Thanks Terri xxx

















To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted; a time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up; a time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance; a time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing; a time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away; a time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak; a time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace









Sent to us from Lisa
Thankyou , Love Hayley & Greg x

Frankie says this pray everynight before
he goes to bed: 





My Friend Jesus

My friend Jesus please help me to be good
to do the things and say the things that all the children should
and if i sometimes slip a bit and do get out of hand
then please my friend Jesus help the grownups understand
is isn't always easy to be as good as good can be
but i am getting better Lord cos you are helping me.

Amen

I didnt have to look into your eyes to fall in love with you,
I didnt have to hear you cry to know you loved me too,
I didnt need to hold your hand to cherish you for always,
Within my womb , we shared our hearts,
You touched my soul,
You sweetened my spirit,
You gave me memories i"ll always hold dear,
Yes, my heart aches since you departed too soon.
But a mothers love does not end with death,
For you are my child,
Forever my love is yours.

~  Your Child's With Me ~ 



I know your heart is filled with grief, you lost your second child. It is so hard to realize the depths to which you cry. I feel that there's a special place where little babies go. God protects them daily and gives them gold Halos.

So your son is in the arms of God and he watches you each day. I know its true cause he's right by you and always he will stay. So when you're sad or you feel blue just look into the sky, and the brightest little cloud up there has baby wrapped inside.

This baby boy that you lost is running in the sun. He's jumping on the clouds and having so much fun. His halo, it is sparkling cause God loves His children best. He's playing with the other children and hardly does he rest.

Your baby did not go away he is right there with you. Always in your heart, forever in your view. Remember that your son is here and always at your side. So don't you cry your child's with Me forever- he will guide.

On your shoulder sits an angel with softest gentle touch. He'll kiss your cheek to greet the day he loves you very much. 












God's Child

"I will lend you a little time a child of mine." God said.
"For you to love while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.

It may for one day or seven years or twenty two or three,
but will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me? 

He will bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief. You will have those lovely memories as salace for your grief.

I cannot promise he will stay , since all from earth return,
there are lessons taught down there that I want this child to learn.
I have looked this wide world over in search for teachers true,
and from throngs that crowd life's lanes, I have selected you.

Now will you give him all your love, not think the labor vain,
nor hate me when I come to take him back again.

I fancied that I heard you say "dear Lord" Thy will be done,
for all joy thy child shall bring. The risk of grief we will run.

We will shelter him with tenderness. We will love him while we may, and for happiness we have known, forever grateful stay,

but should the angels call for him much sooner than we planned .
we will brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand..... 




He was going to be the light of our lives , now he lights up heaven ...











Don’t Think I Do Not Grieve

Don’t think I do not feel;
because you see no tears.
A river rages deep inside
of grief, and loss, and fears.

Just because I do not cry now,
don’t think my heart’s not broken.
I keep inside the misery
of words not to be spoken.

Sometimes I smile, or crack a joke,
so you won’t see the pain;
or notice how my hands will shake,
or how I’ve gone insane.

Each time I chance to think of him,
my heart is ripped asunder.
The loss I feel is mine alone.
you will not see my thunder. 







Just recently I have found an emotion,
I’ve only felt it once before.

They call it being a mother,
Not love, it is so much more.

Instinct and protection,
always keeping you safe,

Protecting and loving you unconditionally,
How I remember the innocence of your little face.

What could i have done to protect you more,
and keep you by my side?

Only God will know the answer,
To my endless question “Why was it MY son that died? 










Since heaven has become your home
I sometimes feel that I'm alone;
And though we now are far apart
You hold a big piece of my heart
I never knew how much I'd grieve
When it was time for you to leave
Or just how much my heart would ache
From that one fragment you would take
God let this tiny hole remain,
Reminding me we'd meet again
And one day all the pain will cease
When He restores this missing piece
For Jesus heals each tiny part
That holds your memory in my heart 






One Wish .......

If I could have an endless wishes,
I'd know what I would say,
Please give me back my Blaise,
Just for one day!!
Then I'd wake up in the morning,
And he"ll be sitting there,
I'll wrap him up so tightly,
Not let him go, not dare!
I would kiss him all over,
We would have so much fun,
And there would be sooo much time,
Our day had just begun,
Daddy can take him to play football,
And we would make a cake,
Then all the family come over,
And what a fuss they'll make!!
Then its time for tea,
And Blaise eats all his up,
He eats from his personlised plate,
He drinks from his personilised cup.
Then it'll be time for bathtime,
And he'll get Daddy and Frankie all wet!
They"ll blow bubbles to each other,
And then the sun will set.
So I'll take him to his bedroom,
And tuck him into his bed,
And Daddy will read him a story,
As he rest his little head.
"I wish for another day,
Let it continue from here,"
If I had endless wishes,
There'd be nothing left to fear. 







OUR ANGEL 

We was given an angel,
To cherish and love,
So tiny, so perfect,
A gift from above.
When we looked at his face
It was calmness we found,
His  love touched our heart
Like fine threads of spun gold,
And we'd thank God for giving
This angel to hold.
But we did not know then
That time was our foe,
And too soon, with a whisper, 
Our angel did go. 
Our hearts almost breaking,
A touch soft as lace
Seemed to wipe at the hurt
As it coursed down our face.
I still have my angel
To cherish and love,
Those gold threads now shimmer
From Heaven above.
And though we can’t see him
Or cuddle him tight, 
We won’t say goodbye,
Little Angel,  just goodnight

The day they placed you in our arms
Your Daddy cried and cried
You seemed so sweet and perfect
And yet, somehow you died

We cried 'til there were no tears left
And still you didn't wake
God must have bigger plans than us
Our son He did take

With heavy hearts we let you go
It's so hard to say good-bye
We hardly got to know you
But it was your time to fly

We long to hold you in our arms
This sorrow is hard to take
Just one more time is all we ask
It seems our hearts will break

The feelings are so numerous
Resentment, anger, grief
We keep asking the same questions
Why was your life so brief?

I think I hear you in my dreams
Saying "Mummy please don't cry
I'm in heaven with the angels
And I'll see you bye and bye"

Dear Father up in heaven
Keep him warm and safe from harm
And when our work on Earth is finished
Please return him to our arms. 

Mother's love is something
that no on can explain,
It is made of deep devotion
and of sacrifice and pain,
It is endless and unselfish
and enduring come what may
For nothing can destroy it
or take that love away . . .
It is patient and forgiving
when all others are forsaking,
And it never fails or falters
even though the heart is breaking . . .
It believes beyond believing
when the world around condemns,
And it glows with all the beauty
of the rarest, brightest gems . . .
It is far beyond defining,
it defies all explanation,
And it still remains a secret
like the mysteries of creation . . .
A many splendoured miracle
man cannot understand
And another wondrous evidence
of God's tender guiding hand










Our Child

On the day God took you
we thought that we would die
we wondered where the time went? 
We asked alot of whys??
With people all around us
we felt alone inside
from all their words of comfort 
we couldn't seem to hide.
We thought we might be dreaming
that we'd wake and find you here, 
We thought "this can't be happening"
As we wiped another tear.
On the day that you were laid to rest 
our hearts broke yet again,
we wondered if the pain would end.
But mostly we wondered when??
It's hard to be without you,
at times the days seem long,
sometimes we just sit crying,
when there is really nothing wrong. 
We wish we'd had more time,
before your life was done.
I hope your resting peacefully 
our precious little one. 


















    





There is a special Angel in Heaven
that is a part of me.
It is not where I wanted him
but where God wanted him to be

He was here but just a moment
like a night time shooting star.
And though he is in Heaven
he isn't very far.

He touched the heart of many
like only an Angel can do.
I would've held him every minute
if the end I only knew.

So I send this special message
to the Heavens up above.
Please take care of my Angel
and send him all my love 









   

No farewell words were spoken, no time to say 
good-bye, you were gone before we knew it, 
and only God knows why 













         












      
May you always walk in sunshine
and God's love around you flow,
for the happiness you gave us, no one will ever know,
it broke our hearts to lose you, but you did not go alone,
a part of us went with you, the day God called you home.
A million times we've needed you.
A million times we've cried.
If love could only have saved you,
you never would have died.
The Lord be with you
And May You Rest In Peace.











Thanks to Lisa xxx





You Are To Me 

You are to me....
The child whom moved inside my womb
Who was born unto me and had lived if only for moments
but who will live in my mind and heart for an eternity

You are to me.....
The child they will not mention,
the child they pretend did not exist.
Please remember my child as if he lived a lifetime
because he lives inside my heart-forever-until i draw my last breath.
I will always remember him.

You are to me...
Butterflies in the spring.....
A rainbow after the rain....
Stars on a warm summer night.....
The sun shining to wake me through my window....
All the earthly beauty my eyes can see
and the warmth of true love.

You are to me an angel whom taught me to be a better person
Showed me how to have compassion for others in need
Showed me how to be a stronger person to face my fears
and most of all.....
touched my heart with your unselfish love.

You are to me.....
 
My Angel 

















I Thought Of You

I thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new.
I thought about you yesterday, and the day before that, too.
I think of you in silence, I often say your name,
But all I have is memories and your picture in a frame.

Your memory is my keepsake, with which I'll never part.
God has you in his keeping, I have you in my heart.
I shed tears for what might have been, a million times I've cried.
If love alone could have saved you, you never would have died.

In life I loved you dearly, in death I love you still,
In my heart you hold a place no one could ever fill.
It broke my heart to lose you, but you didn't go alone,
For part of me went with you, the day God took you home. 







Your Our Shining Star










The Cord

We are connected, my child and I,
by an invisible cord not seen by the eye

It's not like the cord that connects us at birth
this cord can't be seen by anyone on earth

This cord does its work right from the start
It binds us together attached to my heart

I know that it's there though no-one can see
the invisibe cord from my child to me

The strength of this cord it's hard to describe
It can't be destroyed, it can't be denied

It's stronger than any cord man could create
It withstands the test, can hold any weight

And though you're gone, though you're not here with me
the cord is still there but no-one can see

It pulls at my heart, I am bruised, I am sore
but this cord is my lifeline as never before

I am thankful that God connects us this way
A mother and child, death can't take it away !


 








Footprints Across our Heart

The door is closed.
The lights turned off.
The closet stands bare.
All the room once waiting...
For the child that should be there.
Sorrow wells up inside of us.
Our tears, an endless flow.
All because we miss the child...
The child we'll never know
No camping trips, No soccer games,
Nor late evening talks,
No baseball camps or shopping trips
No shaded mountain walks.
We have not even memories
To help through times like these
We only have each other
as we go down on our knees...
To plead with you, our Father,
To take this pain away...
To help us know your love will guide us
through each day.
We may never know the reasons
For this terrible tragedy;
But we can know you love us
through all life's mysteries.
Our time was far too brief;
It was over before its start...
But our little angel left behind
Footprints Across Our Heart


Poem by W.Patrick Queen 





The Child of Our Heart: 

I'll always be your mother
 he'll always be your dad 
you will always be our child 
the child that we had. 
But now you're gone...
but yet you're here.
 you are our sorrow and our joy, 
there's love in every tear
 just know that our love goes deep and strong  
we'll forget you never 
the child we had, but never had 
and yet will have forever. 





A Grieving parent is.......

A grieving parent is someone who will never forget their child no matter how painful memories are.

A grieving parent is someone who yearns to be with their dead but cannot concieve leaving their living loved ones.

A grieving parent is someone who has part of a heart as the rest has gone with their child.

A grieving parent is someone who begs for relief from the memories which plague them and then feel guilty when they get it.

A grieving parent is someone who pretends to be happy and enjoying life when they are really dying inside.

A grieving parent someone who can cry or laugh at the drop of a hat whenever they remember their beloved child.

A grieving parent is someone who feels as if they have just lost their child yesterday no matter how much time has passed.

A grieving parent is someone who fears for their remaining family because they cannot bear to have any more losses.

A grieving parent is someone who sits by their child's memorial and feels a knife stabbing their heart.

A grieving parent is someone who want to help others who have lost a loved one because somehow others loss is theirs all over again.














Please Don't Ask ~~~~~~~

Please don't ask us if were over it yet
We will never be over it, apart of us died with him!!

Please don't tell us he's in a better place 
Blaise is not here with us, in our home!!

Please don't ask if we feel better
Bereavement isn't a condition that clears up!!

Please don't tell us you know how we feel,
Unless you've lost your child, you don't have a clue!!

Please don't tell us at least you had him for 5 months inside you, were grateful we did 
But at what age would you choose to lose your child??

Please don't tell us, at least you have other children - Thank God I do
Which one of your children would you not miss and grieve for?? 



Please do say:

Your sorry

Say you remember him, and will do, always  

Let us talk about our beautiful Blaise

Mention his name, often

Remember his Birth/Angel day

And ~~~~~~~

Please let us grieve and cry!!!! 











Just think of me, and I'll be there,
I'm always around, I'm everywhere,
I'm in your dreams when you sleep,
I hear your cries when you weep,
Don't be sad, wear a smile on your face,
all my sufferings are no more
I am in a better place,
I've left this world, my bodies gone,
but in your hearts my soul lives on,
I know you'll grieve and suffer pain
but one day soon we'll be together








Forever we will miss you,
Forever we will cry,
Why did you have to leave this earth
And gain your wings to fly?

You know we loved you dearly,
More than anyone could know,
Why did you have to leave so soon
Why did you have to go?

Our hearts down here are broken,
And it can never mend,
Forever we protected you,
Until the very end.

We pray to God for answers,
We talk to him each day,
We hope that you can hear us Lord
As on bended knees we pray.

Take good care of our child up there,
He was much wanted here,
Wrap your arms around him please
And tell him we still care,

Let him know we love him so
And will forever more.
Keep him protected, safe and warm
And wrapped in love so pure. 













The Seashore Breeze 


When walking along the shore,
with the breeze upon your face,
there's someone whispering to you,
from a far away place...
Listen very carefully
then, you will hear,
a little boys sweet giggle
telling you he's near
So close your eyes & listen,
dig your toes into the sand
& don't be shocked or startled
as he takes you by the hand.
You will feel your spirits rising,
lifting to the sky,
look into your sons eyes
& realise you can fly!
You soar around together
laughing very loud.
You hug & kiss each other
then settle on a cloud.
"ive missed you so much mummy
& my daddy too,
I still have daddy's chin,
but i really look like you.
Im sorry i had to leave you
I couldn't win the fight.
I come & kiss the family
when you all sleep at night".
Then you'll wake upon the sand
your body feels at ease,
you can feel Blaise run through you
along the seashore breeze. 




















 

   All we ask of you is that you remember him in you prayers 

























          























             

     

Mummy Daddy and Frankie
I Wanted You To Know...... 

I Was Sitting Here In Heaven
And Having A Wonderful Day.
I Started Thinking About You
And All The Things I Didn’t Get A Chance To Say. 



I Don’t Want You To Worry About Me
And Please Don’t Shed Any Tears,
Because I Will Wait For You In Heaven,
If It Takes A Hundred Years. 



Everything I Would Of Had On Earth
I Have In Heaven Too!
My First Day Here
My Body Became Brand New. 



It Is Really Pretty Here
And I Love My New Home,
Although Your Heart Is Broken
Because My Body Is Gone. 



My Love Will Always Be There
As You Go Along The Way,
Just Take A Peek Inside Your Heart
There Is Where I’ll Stay. 



Know That I Loved My Family
And Especially My Big Brother Too,
My Thoughts Will Be With Each Of You
Your Whole Life Through. 





























































































I said, God I hurt
And God said, I know

I said, I cry alot
And God said, That's why I gave you tears

I said, Life is so hard
And God said, That's why I gave you loved ones

I said, But my loved one died!!
And God said, So did mine!!

I said, It's such a great loss!!
And God said, I saw mine nailed to a cross!!

I said, But your loved one lives!!
And God said, So does yours!!

I said, Where is he now??
And God said, My Son is by my side and
Your Son is in my arms!!

author unknown

Sent to me from Angel Katie Cassidy's mum
Thankyou Diane x















Love the Myers Family x Thanks







JUST SAY - " I'M SORRY"

IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW I FEEL- PLEASE DON'T TELL ME THAT YOU DO
THERE'S JUST ONE WAY TO KNOW- HAVE YOU LOST A CHILD TOO?
"YOU'LL HAVE ANOTHER CHILD"- MUST I HEAR THIS EVERYDAY?
CAN I GET ANOTHER PARENT TOO- IF MINE SHOULD PASS AWAY?
"DON'T SAY IT WAS GOD'S WILL"- THAT'S NOT THE GOD I KNOW
WOULD GOD ON PURPOSE BREAK MY HEART- THEN WATCH AS MY TEARS FLOW?
"YOU HAVE AN ANGEL IN HEAVEN- A PRECIOUS CHILD ABOVE"
BUT TELL ME, WHO HERE ON EARTH SHALL I GIVE THIS LOVE?
"AREN'T YOU BETTER YET"- IS THAT WHAT I HEARD YOU SAY?
NO A PART OF MY HEART ACHES- I'LL ALWAYS FEEL SOME PAIN
YOU THINK THAT SILENCE IS KIND; BUT IT HURTS ME EVEN MORE
I WANT TO TALK ABOUT MY CHILD WHO HAS GONE THROUGH DEATH'S DOOR
DON'T SAY THESE THINGS TO ME, ALTHOUGH YOU MEAN WELL
THEY DO NOT TAKE MY PAIN AWAY, I MUST GO THROUGH THIS HELL
I WILL GET BETTER, SLOW BUT SURE AND IT HELPS TO HAVE YOU NEAR
BUT A SIMPLE "I'M SORRY YOU LOST YOUR CHILD" IS ALL I NEED TO HEAR 










                            































I tried calling God today 

I tried calling God today

To ask him why he took my Blaise away

I couldn't find the right extension

But then for a moment I felt a connection

He said to me... I didn it take him away you see, I've taken him to Heaven with all the angels and Me.

He is now an Angel flying high in the sky above, His wings are huge and gleaming white like a baby dove.

I know you feel the pain just as everyone else does, But you must know it is all of you that he loves.

He is in Heaven on this very special Day, I wanted him with the angels to celebrate.

So try not to be so sad, I know it is hard to be anything near glad.

But He is my Son, my Child, my Angel and is safe with me, he is in Heaven now with his soul at ease.

His soul has lifted and is free at last, There is no more suffering no pain he must grasp.

He is there with you he is in your heart...he is in Heaven now and has made a new start.

He will never forget you, and be by your side...He is now your Guardian Angel on your shoulder is where he will ride.

He will watch you and guide you through thick and thin, Don't forget he is your angel make sure you let him in.

Make sure you talk to him and love him true..he is holding a special spot in Heaven for you

So until the day comes when you meet again...Love him dearly, Love him so true let him know how much you miss him and how much he meant to you too. 











To a Stillborn Brother


How do you love a person
Who never got to be,
Or try again to see a face
You never got to see?
How do you mourn the death of one
Who never got to live,
When there's nothing to feel good about
And nothing to forgive?
I love you, little brother.
You're a person of the wind,
Free to be the memory
Of all that might have been.
I love you, little brother,
My companion of the night,
Wandering through my lonely hours,
Beautiful and bright.
What does it mean to die before
You ever can be born,
To live the lovely night of life
And never see the dawn?
Ah! My little brother,
You lived like anyone!
Life's a burst of joy and pain,
And then, like yours, it's done.
I love you, little brother,
Just as if you'd lived for years.
No more, no less, I think of you,
The angel of my tears.

Love You Blaise
All my hugs Frankie xxxxxxxxx









To My baby Brother Blaise , teddy for you to hold when you need a cuddle and we cant be there to give you one, love and kisses always Frankie xxx






















































IM SORRY



I’m sorry my son, my heavenly angel above

I’m sorry that you are not here for me to love



I’m sorry that I couldn’t stop it and did not know

I’m sorry that from us you had to go



I’m sorry to Daddy and your brothers too

I’m sorry that I did not know what to do



I’m sorry you grew wings and had to fly

I’m sorry we never got a chance to say goodbye



I’m sorry for me and I’m sorry for you

I’m sorry for all your nannies and granddads too



I’m sorry there will be no memories of you to hold

I’m sorry there are only sad stories to be told



I’m sorry I didn’t hold you for very long

I’m sorry Daddy didn’t, he wasn’t so strong



I’m sorry it didn’t turn out the way it should

I’m sorry I took it for granted it would



I’m sorry I can’t tell you I love you every day

I’m sorry it turned out this way


I’m sorry 



   






One day God took one of his littlest Angels from his nursery and told him that He wanted him to leave for a while as He had a special mission for him down on earth. The little Angel looked shocked when he heard the news but his heavenly Father began to reassure him. 'I will send you there to spread love across the earth and hopefully spread the word about me.'
'But who will love ME as you and the other Angels do up here?'
'You will have your own special Angel with you on earth to love you, I promise.'
'But who will comfort me if I ever come to harm as I know that life is often painful down there?'
'Your special Angel will comfort you.'
'But who will teach me to say my prayers every night like the bigger angels do here?'
'Your special Angel will pray with you before you go to sleep.'
'And will you let me come back here again?'
'Of course you will come back for you must know how much I love you so.'
The littlest Angel went quiet for a moment and then looked up at his Father, 'Then I will happily go for you, but first I need to know the name of my special Angel so that I can call for her when I need to.'
The Lord smiled, 'You have no need to know her real name, just call her 'mummy'. 










Our Bond will never be broken ......


I am still a Mummy;
I was a Mummy from the start.
What makes me a Mummy
is that feeling in my heart.
Pregnant I was, there was a baby inside me.
For some Mummy's all it takes is to know,
they have planted that seed.
There is a bond that takes place
from the moment that you know.
Inside of your body someone
special has started to grow.
My baby didn't make it;
he is in Heaven up above.
In my heart I'm still his Mummy,
I am filled with endless love.
Something happens to a woman
when her seedling starts to grow.
Unless you have felt these feelings
it is impossible to know.
He meant the world to me
and I will never be the same.
All I need is for you to listen
when I wish to say his name.
He may be gone but he's not forgotten
I miss him each and every day.
Could you imagine that
it would be any other way?
What kind of Mummy would I be
if I forgot my son?
I had planned my whole life around him,
all the great things we would have done.
I may have another child, and maybe
possibly another two.
There is something I know for certain,
he will always be my second son,
my Blaise, and I'm his Mummy too.





For those few weeks--
I had you to myself
And that seems too short a time
to be changed so profoundly.

In those few weeks--
I came to know you
and to love you.
You came to trust me with your life.
Oh, what a life I had planned for you!

Just those few weeks--
When I lost you.
I lost a lifetime of hopes,
plans, dreams, and aspirations...
A slice of my future simply vanished overnight.

Just those few weeks--
It wasn't enough time to convince others
how special and important you were.
How odd, a truly unique person has recently died
and no one is mourning the passing.

Just a mere few weeks--
And no "normal" person would cry all night
over a tiny, unfinished baby,
or get depressed and withdrawn day after endless day.
No one would, so why am I?

You were just those few weeks my little one
you darted in and out of my life too quickly.
But it seems that's all the time you needed
to make my life so much richer
and give me a small glimpse of eternity





My Mum is a Survivor

My Mum is a survivor,
Or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night,
When all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night,
And go to hold her hand.
She doesn't know I'm with her,
To help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach,
That never wash away...
I watch over my surviving mum,
Who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others...
A smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see,
Tears flowing from her eyes.
My mum tries to cope with death,
To keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows,
It is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mum,
Through Heaven's open door...
I try to tell her that angels,
Protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
Or ease the burden she bears.
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
And show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
No matter what she feels,
My surviving mum has a broken heart,
That time won't ever heal. 











Sending this teddy to keep you company until we arrive to see you love you Blaise . Daddy xxx









To some you are forgotten,
to others, just the past,
but to us who loved and lost you,
your memory will always last.

I'll always be there with you,
and watch the sky at night.
Find the brightest star that's gleaming,
that's my halo shining bright.

You'll see me in the morning frost
that mists your windowpane.
That's me, in the summer showers,
I'll be dancing in the rain.

When you feel a gentle breeze
from a gentle wind that blows,
That's me! I'll be there,
planting a kiss upon your nose.

When you see a child playing
and your heart feels a little tug...
That's me! I'll be there,
giving your heart a hug.

So, daddy please don't look so sad.
Mummy don't you cry.
I'm in the arms of friends,
and they sing me lullabies. 









A FATHER'S GRIEF

It must be very difficult
To be a man in grief
Since "Men don't cry" and "Men are strong"
No tears can bring relief

It must be very difficult
To stand up to the test
And field calls and visitors
So that she can get some rest

They always ask if she's alright
And what shes going through
But seldom take his hand and ask
"My friend, how are you?"

He hears her cry in the night
And thinks his heart will break
He dries her tears and comforts her
But "Stays strong" for her sake

It must be very difficult
To start each day anew
And try to be so very brave
Because he lost his baby too























For my Daddy ......


I'll be there

Daddy please don’t look so sad, mummy please don’t cry.
Cause I’m in the arms of Jesus and he sings me lullabies.
please, try not to question god, don’t think he is unkind.
don’t think he sent me to you, and then he changed his mind.

You see I am a special child, and im needed up above.
im the special gift you gave to him, im a product of your love.
I'll always be there with you, and watch the sky at night.
just find the brightest gleaming star, that's my halo shining light.

you'll see me in the morning frost, that mists your window pane.
that's me in all the summer showers, dancing in the rain.
when you feel a little breeze, from a gentle wind that blows.
that's me, I'll be there, planting kisses on your nose.
when you see a child that's playing and your heart feels a tug.
that's me, I'll be there giving your heart a hug.
so daddy please don't look so sad, and mummy please don't cry.
I'm in the arms of Jesus, and he sings me lullaby's




Hi Daddy, its me,
Your baby boy in the sky.
Won't you tell me Daddy,
why does my mummy cry?

Doesn't she know I'm happy here,
Heaven's a beautiful place
Oh, how it hurts me, Daddy
To see tears streaming down Mummy's face.

Daddy, tell her I'm much better here,
Jesus fixed my heart.
But when I see mommy crying,
It just about tears it apart.

I know it hurt you both, Daddy,
When Jesus took me away.
But you and mummy remember,
We'll be together again someday.

I can't wait to hug you again,
I never got the chance before.
When its time for you to come,
I'll be waiting at heavens door.

Then you'll both understand,
Jesus knew where I needed to be.
What a marvellous place to live,
Just wait and you both shall see.

Please let my Mummy know, Daddy,
That I heard every word she said.
And I remember her softly kissing me
As I lay and she kissed my head.

Just one more thing Daddy,
Before I have to go,
I love you both very much
And just wanted you to know. 







My Dad is a Survivor 


My dad is a survivor too
which is no surprise to me.
He's always been like a lighthouse
that helps you cross a stormy sea.
But, I walk with my dad each day
to lift him when he's down.
I wipe the tears he hides from others;
He cries when no one's around.
I watch him sit up late at night
with my picture in his hand.
He cries as he tries to grieve alone,
and wishes he could understand.
My dad is like a tower of strength.
He's the greatest of them all!
But, there are times when he needs to cry...
Please be there when he falls.
Hold his hand or pat his shoulder...
And tell him it's okay.
Be his strength when he's sad,
Help him mourn in his own way.
Now, as I watch over my precious dad
from the Heavens up above...
I'm so proud that he's a survivor...
And, I can still feel his love. 




"A STILL FATHER"

My child is gone
I hardly remember
Him coming
A moment in time
That was both
The longest
And shortest
Of my life.

Anticipation
Devastation
And now
Reclamation.
Putting the pieces
Of my soul
In semblance
Of order.

Time to go on
Time to get on
With life
With love
With a hole
In my heart
But with joy
For that moment.

I am Blaise's father
A blessed gift
Through whom I have learned
I can love deeply
That which I cannot hold
Except in my heart
Knowing I am forever his father



                                    













                          





























THIS LITTLE DOVE OF PEACE
FLIES FROM SITE TO SITE
PLEASE TAKE IT TO YOUR SITE
OR GIVE IT TO SOMEONE
FOR THEIR SITE 


















                                     










Our Angel playing on the clouds































  For My Mummy ...



MY MUM

My mum, she tells a lot of lies
She never did before.
From now until the day she dies,
she'll tell a whole lot more.
She used to tell the truth a lot,
but now it doesn't matter,
I died and went to heaven,
her life is all a shatter.

Ask my mum how she is,
She'll say yes im fine!
She wants to beg "Please help me
I cant find that prince of mine!
Ask my mum how she is,
she'll say "I'm alright"
If that's the truth then tell me,
why does she cry each night?

Ask my mum how she is,
she seems to cope so well
She didn't have a choice,
you see, nor the strength to yell.
You think you no the feeling,
but this cannot be,
For even though you loved me,
you didn't love as much as she.

She will smile and tell you,
"it's ok god has a plan."
But she will turn away and cry,
cause she just cant understand.
Tell a joke and she will laugh,
but she is not ok
She wants to share the joke with me,
but it will not be today.

I watch her from here in heaven,
Will someone please take care of her,
and thus take care of me?
Some day you will feel better
"Yes I will" she lies.
She knows this will not happen,
Until the day she dies.


Ask my mum how she is,
She'll say, thank you good
she cannot tell you how she feels,
Oh I wish she could.
Ask my mum how she is
Im fine, im well, im coping.
"for gods sake mum, just tell the truth,
just say your heart is broken.

Ask my mum how she is,
Im well, im good, and you?
Ill shake my head in heaven
It simply isn't true.
She'll love me all her life,
I loved her all of mine.
But if you ask her how she is, she'll lie and
say she's fine.

Her carnival is over,
She's stepped off the carousel,
But to save you feeling badly,
She'll say, thanks all is well.
My mum she's not gone mad yet
But oh so very nearly.
Don't ask my mum how she is,
Ask her how she is really.

I'm here in heaven,
I can not hug from here.
If she lies to you don't listen.
Hug her, hold her near.
On the day we meet again,
we'll smile and ill be bold
I'll say
"Your lucky to get in here with all the lies you
told.








































I am your mother, but you, my child, I cannot hold. It'll get easier with time, or so I'm told. People may forget that I am your mother. I'm part of a secret club we only share with one another. But that doesn't diminish my love for you. I think of you the whole day through. I wonder what you're doing, my Precious Little One......................... We are connected by an Infinite bond, which cannot come undone. I will not let Death tear us apart. I promise to always keep you alive in my heart. You are a Precious Child Created out of love, a blessing from above. I've adored you from the start, when your little footprints touched my heart. A single teardrop represents the millions I have cried. My life never the same since you died. I wish you could have stayed longer with me, I'd watch you grow into all you could be. Although we are no longer together, your beautiful spirit will endeavour. I dream of a joyful time when we will be reunited once again. Thoughts of you make me smile. You will always be My Forever Child!!!




























Im always watching over you , never forget that mummy & daddy





















" Angels Rocking My Baby "



The angels are rocking my baby,

at the top of the golden stair.

No harm will ever befall him,

away in that city of fair.



I know he would be far better in Heaven,

but when angels took him away,

My heart was broken and lonely,

at the thought of him going to stay.



Sometimes in season of fancy,

I look through the blue curtain sky,

and picture my darling in Heaven,

with never a tear in his eye.



In patience I'll wait the dawning,

my babe has the tenderest of care,

for the angels are rocking our fair one,

at the top of the golden stair. 


 




If tears could build a staircase
and memories a lane,
I would walk all the way to Heaven,
and bring you back again 







 
Your only over the Rainbow ...........................
When we see these we think of you xxx





   


Irish Blessing for Blaise

 


  



















Hayley Leah's Mummy sent me this .....


'' Blaise and Leah in Heaven ''















Your Guardian Angel

There are Angels all around you
please believe that this is true
they follow your every footstep
and are always there for you.

If you open up your heart and mind
and just invite them in
a whole new way of living
is certain to begin

You will sense their gentle presence
and feel the shelter of their wings
and, most of all, the peace of mind
that acknowledging them brings.

So, ask them for their guidance
for it flows from high Above
and nestle in the joy they bring
as they fill your life with love.









For Mummy and Daddy

Sorry I didn't get to stay.
To laugh to run and to play.
To be there always by your side.
I'm sorry that I had to die.

God sent me down to be with you,
to make your loving hearts anew.
To help you look up and see
Both God and little me.

Mummy, I wish I could stay.
Just like I heard you pray.
But, all the angels did cry
when they told me I had to say goodbye.

God didn't take me cause He's mad.
He didn't send me to make you sad.
But to give us both a chance to be
a love so precious .. don't you see?

Up here there is no trouble to see
and nanny & grandad are my anges they sings to me.
The streets of gold is where I play
you'll come here too, mummy and daddy someday.

Until the day you join me here,
I'll love you mummy and daddy, dear.
Each breeze you feel and see,
brings love and a great big kiss from me.

I love you, Blaise x






Just calling you mummy & daddy to say I love you  X


Last night while I was sleeping, my sons voice I did hear

I opened my eyes and looked in the room
But Blaise didn't appear

he said:
"Mum you've got to listen,you've got to understand
God didn't take me from you, he only took my hand

When I called out in pain that night, he instantly reached down,
took my hand and pulled me gently to his side,
lifted me up and saved me from all the misery and pain inside.
My body hurt so badly, I could never be the same

My search is really over now
I've found happiness within, all the answers to my empty
dreams and all that might have been

I love and miss you soooo very much, I'll always be near by
My body's gone forever
But my spirit will never die

So you must go on now and live one day at a time 
Tell Daddy and Frankie that im fine
I love you all more than you'll know
and i see the love for me you show
Until we meet again

Just understand:

God didn't take me from you, he only took my hand!!!! 



































We Love You Blaise

Blaise's Angel Friends 
     
Please visit them too and keep their memory alive
 
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Thank-you for taking time to visit  Blaise's Site , whether you just  looked at it , read our thoughts , lighted a candle or offered your condolences, it means alot to us xxxx


   




                                           
                   

What My Child Has Taught Me 


I've learned that you can keep going long after you think you can't. 

I've learned that learning to forgive takes a lot of practice. 

I've learned that friends can become strangers, and strangers can become friends. 

I've learned that ignorance isn't an excuse for the lack of compassion. 

I've learned that some people will never, ever - "get it". 

I've learned that the community of sorrow is the strongest of all. 

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. 

I've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of minutes. 

I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon. 

I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words.  It may be the last time you see them. 

I've learned that love isn't measured by the amount of time you have with someone. 

I've learned that some sorrow is so deep that it has no words. But so is love



                
                                                    

To our family and all our friends, for always being there and to all the strangers whom we now call friends , We are truly thankful for those of you who visit Blaise's site and those who send us pictures for it.

Love to each and everyone of you


Hayley, Greg & Frankie xxx


                  

















        
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